What to Do if You Have Cheated on Your Partner
If you have cheated on your partner, it is not the time for recriminations or guilt. It is time to become aware of what happened and to take responsibility for what you did.
When a person is unfaithful, the fear of losing one’s partner makes people acting inappropriately, eventually achieving the opposite effect. Even if you have never been unfaithful, this article could help to understand why people cheat and act in a certain way.
If you have cheated, take your responsibilities
There are some people who, when they cheat, hide the misdeed so as not to compromise their relationship. However, the lack of honesty in a couple is expensive.
Sooner or later the truth will come out. It is essential to take responsibility for what happened and to confess it to the other person. Because, when we love, we must always be honest. Another thing you will often do after a betrayal is to blame your partner for your own infidelity.
Phrases like “you and I almost never have sex” or “our relationship has cooled down” can make your partner feel guilty. But they don’t really work, as these are a clear example of manipulation and lack of responsibility in recognizing that a mistake has been made.
Distance in association with betrayal
People who have been unfaithful, often, because they are desperate to be forgiven and they fear to lose the person they love, will try to prevent their partner from distancing themselves, taking time to think.
It is then that the other person takes time to decide on how to continue the relationship. We plead, we humble ourselves, we cry, we kneel, and all these actions are for manipulation.
When a crisis occurs, it is necessary to distance oneself. Not only so that the other person sees from a different perspective what has happened and has the freedom to choose what is best to do, but also because the person who has betrayed needs time to reassess the situation.
It is important to clarify some aspects, to know whether to definitively close that relationship or to start a new chapter with the same partner.
The biggest problem arises as we deny this aspect, because romantic love, that which lasts “forever,” is internalized in our mind and does not allow us to conceive the end of a relationship because of an error.
We are afraid of realizing that things are no longer working. As a result, we continue to carry forward a report made of crumbs that, sooner or later, will vanish.
The importance of accepting errors
We all make mistakes. Some only affect us, while others will have a substantial impact on other people as well.
However, when you cheat, you must accept your mistake to eliminate guilt and your attempts to manipulate your partner, to prevent them from leaving you.
Ending the relationship is his full right, which we will have to accept without trying at all costs to change his mind.
Furthermore, we must be aware that the relationship will no longer be the same. Everything changes after an error of this type and we must never forget it.
Being unfaithful can happen, but taking responsibility for what happened and not trying to convince others to give us a second chance is very important.
We must allow ourselves time to reflect and determine what we want, as well as accept the consequences of the mistake made.
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